No, don't worry. I am not on a desert island... though it would be really cool
As a foreigner in any strange, new city you often find yourself needing to ask the locals for directions. If you don't speak the language, asking for directions often becomes a fun game of charades and a lot of index finger pointing and arm waiving. If you do speak the language though, you would expect to be able to easily get adequate directions from strangers without too much hassle.
In China though, I have found, as have others I know, that getting directions is never as simple and easy as it should be.
Take the example of when I went to pick up my
Beijing Marathon packet. I was told to head to the olympic area, which, by the way, is now fairly deserted and altogether rather eery. Especially when the pollution is bad and you can't even make out the birds nest when you get out of the stadium subway stop. When I got to the area, there were no signs for where to go to pick up the marathon packet, despite it most certainly being the only "event" going on within a couple mile radius that day.
So I started asking people for directions and the following is what transpired:
Person 1: go to the intersection
I get there and see no obvious signs this is it so ask someone else
Person 2: go left and walk about 200 metres
This leads me to a gate with a sign indicating packet pick up. But still not obvious where to go
Person 3: go that way ... and points
I head that way
Person 3 yells in Chinese: foreigner, to the left more
This sends me over an embankment and down some steps. Really not obvious where to go
Person 4: points behind him, indicating he has come from it
I keep walking and get to a small lake. Again, no obvious place for it to be
Person 5: directs me round the lake and over to a set of stairs
Get there and eventually find the packet pick up but....
Guard: you can't come in here. Go down the stairs, up a bigger set of stairs and round to the other side
WOW. By that point I was pretty ticked off to say the least.
I find it very bizarre that no one wants to take the time to actually give you a comprehensive set of directions when you ask. If someone asked me for directions, I would try and tell them as much as I could, rather than just say go straight then left if after that there was still a lot more of importance. I am not quite sure what this says about the Chinese mindset. Does it mean that they value their time and don't want to waste it giving directions? They don't value people's time and thus presume you can continue to ask many people each step of the way?
It is also interesting that it is not just foreigners who experience this phenomenon. I have been with Chinese people who also have to ask several different people for directions before they get to their destination. The overall reliance on people for help is certainly noteworthy. In the US we tend to rely on technology or government signs to guide us, and turn to people as a last resort. I think we naturally asume we are capable enough to solve an issue on our own. Here in Beijing though people instinctively turn to others for help, rather than individually try to solve the issue. In the US we highly value an individuals time, where as over here, because there are so many people, time arguably seems less valued. True? Interesting?
Something else to note is that in my experience many Chinese tend to try and avoid confrontation. Among my fellow Chinese dorm students, this phenomenon has come up quite often. You end up hearing through 3rd and 4th hand sources about how you did something to annoy or upset one of them but they couldn't say anything at the time because it would be confrontational. For example, once I was looking through a female friend's music library to borrow some music when her roommate came in and then left again. She said nothing, and we both presumed she had just grabbed something to continue doing whatever she was doing. I left 5 minutes later. Apparently though she wanted to change in the room but didn't want to ask me to leave for a minute. Cultural differences as well come into play here, but the emphasis is on the idea of shying away from confrontation. When it comes to directions as well, I think the fact you only get a small snippet of directions is due to the fact people don't actually want to help you but don't want to engage in confrontation to the extent of outrightly say "no!"
Of course one way to solve this is to not ask for directions at all, and instead just follow the crowds - which is what I did when I arrived in Tiananmen Square for the marathon and was not sure where to go. With so many people, if you are going to a sizable event or non-insignificant place, you can usually rely on the crowd to guide you.